First Date Conversation Starters

Good First Date Conversation Starters

Do you need to know everything about someone’s past?
It is more worthwhile and satisfying to improve the world or appreciate the world?
Do you feel you have a purpose or calling in life?
Do you believe that dreams can be messages from a “higher level”?
Would you rather have a great friend you could share everything with or a great lover you can’t really talk to?

1000 Questions to Ask your Boyfriend

Is the male or female body the closest to perfection?
Do you like kissing in public?
Do you have a fetish that you would like to employ in your next relationship?
Would you ever start a relationship with someone who was still living with an ex for financial reasons?
Would you date someone significantly (9 years or over) older than you?
Generally, in life, what makes you happy?
Would you like to date someone a lot purer than you?
When fooling around with someone, do you sometimes have sexual fantasies about other people?
Is it possible for full-figured women to be equally attractive as thinner women?
You've just met someone incredible and (s)he’s been kind enough to cough up a phone number. When do you call?
Do you think the family of a murder victim should have any say in what punishment is given to the murderer?
Would you have a ‘Happy Button’ installed on your body, connected to your brain, which would instantly make you very happy whenever you pressed it?

Nice First Date Conversations Starters

Would you rather know everything about your mate, or be regularly surprised?

We are all human, do you judge someone for a past indiscretion?

What looks sexy on a woman or a man?

Would you rather have your dream job or your soul mate for the rest of your life?

Do you consider yourself sexually open minded?

Should your mate also become your best friend?

Have you ever had a true one-night stand?

Have you ever posed as a nude model?

Would you prefer if good things happened, or interesting things?

Is it better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all?

Do you have any pet names?

How did you get them?

What would you like me to call you as, other than your name?

Did you grow up here?

Which are your favorite bands or singers?

What school activities do you or did you participate in?

Where were you born?

Do you have any siblings?

Where did your family go for vacations in the summer?

Great First Date Conversation Starters or Questions

What jobs do your parents do?

What did you call your grandparents?

(ex. Grammy, Grandpa, etc.) Do you have a pet?

What were your childhood pets?

Does your pet do any tricks?

How old is your pet?

What is on your bedside table?

Do you have posters up on your room walls?

Do you still have tonsils?

Which do you prefer - Coke or Pepsi?

What is your idea of a romantic date?

At what age do you wish to marry?

Which color do you like the most?

When did you fall in love with me?

What is the thing you love most about me?

Did you like me instantly?

If you had a lot of money, where would we go on vacation?

What are your major goals in life?

Have you ever lied to me and if so, why?

Do you see us together in another year, 3 years, 5 or so?

If you have the chance, what would you probably say to your beloved one?

Where is the place that you want to go the most?

Which part of you that you hate the most?

Very Good First Date Conversation Stater Questions

Which colors do you like me wearing for you?

When you encounter a sad moment, what would you do?

What is your view of a well functioning relationship?

Do you like to budget or just more casual around finances?

What are you feelings about religion for raising children?

Describe to me the perfect date?

What are the most important traits in a man, in your opinion?

What are you 3 favorite activities?

What types of movies do you enjoy?

What would you do if a bear came up to you and we were together in the forest?

If God asked you for three boons, then what would they be and why?

If deserted on an island, what three things would you want and why would you choose them?

If you had a whole week to do things with your partner, what would you do?

You and your girlfriend are going to watch a movie, what three types of movies would you choose?

Tell me something about your childhood?

Describe yourself in a single sentence?

What would you cook for me?

What would you like to change about yourself?

If you could have three wishes, what would they be?

Do you make friends easy?

What’s your idea of the perfect date?

Where do you see yourself in five, ten, fifteen years?

Who is your favorite hero of all time?

Do you consider yourself a happy person?

What is your greatest trait, accomplishment, goal for the future?


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